Saturday, March 13, 2010

BULLY

Beware.. lot's of writing for this post..

It was kind of weird to have this title on weekends.. but I really can't stop thinking of an incident that happened to our friend's child.

I got a heartache when hubby told me about this..

She was only in standard 3.. Study in 1 of the government school.
She was an A student in her class.

1 day the class teacher was not able to come to teach.. and what happened was a group of student (Her own class mate.. Damn!) beat her.. 24 standard 3 student beat her!!

You heard me 24 little beast student (Sorry if 1 of the kids was yours.. ;-p). I don't know how was her condition.. but the father already informed to the school principal. I remember she was a very sweet and small size girl.. pity her..

The little girl always come home and ask her daddy.. 'Dad.. why all my classmate called me Keling?? What is that??'.. Dad just answer.. Oh that's nothing.. See? How innocent was this girl.. she been bullied but still doesn't realize that, until she been beaten by 24 other kids.. *Sigh*.

(For your info.. in Semenanjung to call some1 'Keling' is very rude.. you are humiliating somebody by calling them by that name.. But in KK.. or Sabah that word is actually normal.. and we call Indian people by that name, But I think not anymore right?? Jeez.. so be careful when using that word here in Semenanjung.. ;-p)

I just don't understand why this age (Standard 3) already knows how to act violence.. I believed NO parents teach their child to do that..

Seems that our child are soon will be exposed to all this.. I don't feel safe anymore!! *Sigh*.. How do we handle this..

I am worried 1 day my boy will become victims.. and Much more worried if he become the opposite 1.. King of bully.. (Touch wood)..

I was browsing for bully images from Google.. and stumble a post about how a group of teenage girls bullying another girl.. beating her, kicking and undress her!!! Enough with the photos.. I don't have a heart to continue watching the Ytube video.. (Local student somemore.. Gosh!!)

OMG!!! I wish all this bully girls dead by a very tragic accident! Ok.. I pull back my word.. God change this girls life.. and 1 day they are the one who runs the 'No Bully' campaign.. what so ever..

*Sigh*.. I am out of here!!

6 VIP COMMENTS:

Justagirl said...

unfortunately, this type of behavior is far too common, can we blame the parent? YES! but the kids have to be responsible as well. I have to say that i would teach my children to defend themselves and hope they never have to.

Deanona said...

ish ni budak2 ni.. org keling pun mo pukul kan.. huhu.. kasian dia.. :(

chegu carol said...

24 against 1????
and i wonder what did the girl do wrong to provoke those 24 kids who are just 9 years of age.

Cath J said...

Justagirl: Yes.. I am teaching my boy to defense too.. When he was small he always bullied by some other big boy and I ask him to defense.. but now a days..I noticed he loves to beat.. Oww gosh I hope he don't simply beat others.. T_T

Chegu: She been beaten bcoz she always good in study and always get good result in exam... adakah mcm ni?? aduh....

SJB said...

Tulah tu, setiap hari lepas sekolah tu saya selalu tanya cikgu dorang si IH & JB apa macam doragn di kelas mana lah tahu dorang yang jadi pembully hehehe, si JB ni sudah 2 kali kena warning sebab pukul orang kan tu lah tu pasal orang bau napas saja pun dia pukul.

Sama saya tanya dorang juga apa macam sekolah ada apa apa yang terjadi kah atau ada orang yang kacau dorang kah gitu. Ah..kadang tu ada juga lah si IH cakap ada budak tolak dia gitu. Tengok keadaan lah kalau teruk si GE call di sekolah tu kalau sekadar main main tu ah kami kasih warning lah tu. supaya lain kali mesti pandai jaga diri. Harap harap dorang ok lah kan.

Mrs Graig said...

Sya rasa the 24 studs tu took the adaption from their home la..bah budak2 kan..msti drg buat apa yg drg nmpk especially from home la kan..their parents la yg patut responsible on what had happened..kesian jg the Indian girl..huhu